2012 Year of the Nice Guy

Dating tip 10: Ask out nice guys.  Quit pouting to yourself, “Nobody like me.” As my mom would say,   ”That’s a lie from the devil.”  Plenty of guys like you.  You are busy ignoring them for hot guys who, in turn, ignore you.  After all, 2012 is year of the nice guy. It is our…

Mind if I Buy You a Song?

Dating Tip #3: Guys, do not over-serve a girl. There’s no need for that. Who wants to take home someone who doesn’t really like him anyway? Buy her favorite song from the jukebox or make a dj request instead. You don’t have to like it, but you do have to tolerate it. This way, you…

Redflag for Douchebag

Dating Tip #2: Guys, do not overuse the word “actually.” It’s a redflag for douchebag. As in, “Actually you are kind of cute. Actually I don’t have a girlfriend.  Actually I do have a job. You are actually smarter than you look.”  Ugh. Same goes for the word “unfortunately.” This is like d-bag version 2.0.…

Hold Something

Dating Tip #1: Girls, if you want to meet nice guys on the strand like I do, just carry a camera, walk with purpose, and SMILE. The camera is an excuse for guys to come talk to you or vice versa. Just think of something good to say for when they do approach. You could…