Give Up Attachment to Unrequited Crushes

Dating Tip 13: Give up attachment to unrequited crushes. It’s a little hobby that’s better suited to 7th graders anyhow.  Maybe if my mom hadn’t burned my diary at age 13, I’d be through this phase by now. Here’s a little mantra to get you through this period of house cleaning: “None are more hopelessly…

Free eHarmony app: Bad Date Rescue

Bad Date Rescue is the newly launched app by eHarmony.  Seems harmless and entertaining.  Or you could just go ahead and tell someone, “You are a nice person, but I’m just not feeling it. Let’s go ahead and call it a night, see you around. Ciao.” Telling the truth becomes easier and easier the more…

Intimate Bicycle Grouping. Photo by Anna Cox.

Forced Intimacy at the Beach

Forced Intimacy at the Beach  This vignette comes to you courtesy of a beach run in at 8th street, which is where I hang. Reading books and doing other nerdy things. So I’ve been taking my own advice — going out of my way to talk to nice guys, regardless of the attraction level I…

Just Cut Him

Dating tip 12: My male fans want me to announce that “Women keep score, while men don’t.” Okay. So now what? My advice is to quit doing bad things that we need to remember forever.  My current unrequited crush has only done one thing that is un-erasable. One thing in 7 months, depending on how…