Dating tip 10: Ask out nice guys.  Quit pouting to yourself, “Nobody like me.” As my mom would say,   ”That’s a lie from the devil.”  Plenty of guys like you.  You are busy ignoring them for hot guys who, in turn, ignore you.  After all, 2012 is year of the nice guy. It is our last year on earth. Remember hot guy = mean guy. I give hot guys an automatic -2 points just to bring them down to an 8, putting everyone on a level playing field.