Dating Tip #2: Guys, do not overuse the word “actually.” It’s a redflag for douchebag. As in, “Actually you are kind of cute. Actually I don’t have a girlfriend.  Actually I do have a job. You are actually smarter than you look.”  Ugh. Same goes for the word “unfortunately.” This is like d-bag version 2.0. Watch out, I’m on to you.